Reality Check - Tumblr Posts

Daily reminder that 'they're hot' and 'they'd be hot together' are perfectly valid, complete reasons to ship two characters and you do not need a checklist of stipulations and statements in order to justify why you're shipping two characters.

It literally doesn't matter who they are or what relationship they have. You can like them just because you find them attractive. Just like 'no' is a full sentence, 'they're hot' is a full sentence. That's the beauty of fiction; by its own nature it doesn't have to subscribe to the intricacies of reality.

This is a PSA that you cannot promote blocking people or announce whenever you block someone because they're ~wrong~ then turn around and mock or harass people because, shocker, they blocked you.

If you're an anti, you can't go after proshippers for blocking you and curating their own space the way you do.

If you're into a certain character or ship, you can't mock the people who aren't who block you so they don't have to see your content and so you can't see theirs to attack it.

Its pathetic. Its hypocritical. Its just a blatant announcement of the fact that you think you have the inherent right to target people and engage with someone against their wishes based on your personal views. If someone did that to you you'd be the first to cry foul and start a witch hunt.

Let. People. Curate. Their. Own. Online. Spaces.

With or without you.

Blocking and the right to block and not see content or engage with someone goes both ways.

Me: I think I love him.

My sister: Well, he's married so sucks to be you.

And she said that while reading something from her chemistry book.

We argue with Ourselves

Political debates over living policy

Unsure of anything

Afraid of reality

Afraid of Our delusions

Can hardly tell what is real

Afraid which ever one We choose

Is going to kill Us all

- Andrew, We

To add onto it!! They made a transphobic comment and called him (and I quote) “Hermann” at the end. Which is his name. He chose that name. But they fucking made a comment that is mocking. Because yknow… it’s “not black and white and you need to separate reality from fiction”. Shut your fucking proship-y mouth up. Not to mention as someone who *literally suffers from delusions* their comment was VERY RC-y.

Posting this onto his post because he is not in a good headspace now over this fucker :)))

Oh boy I sure do love the newmann tag being full of mlm fetishists :]

; a reminder to all the " I wanna look like this / get this haircut / do my makeup like this / wtv but I'll be judged !! " people that life ends. Uh not to scare you but you're actually not immortal and will die and unless you like find the secret to cure cancer on your way out no one is going to remember you after a while. And yes, people will probably hate you for expressing yourself in the moment because people like that are essentially always going to exist, and they're all going to have different opinions and try to pick apart everything about you and squash you into what they want.

; Don't. Listen. To. Them.

; wear what you want, use makeup how you want, cut your hair how you want, walk how you want, whatever. If you're not hurting ( and by hurting I do NOT mean cracking their fragile opinion in half by being slightly different ) anyone then it's literally okay. It's fine. It's more than fine, just do it. Ignoring people is hard I get that, but once you stop taking their rude close-minded opinion into consideration life suddenly seems so much better. So much freeer. It'll take time but by the universe itself is it worth it.

; so yeah, friendly reminder that life ends and I'd rather have it end w me looking like one of Remy's fucked up pasta recipes mixed with green paint and a garbage can while I live my freest and happiest life than like .. Be sad and have my last thought be " is my makeup off ?? Do I look weird ? What if years from now my grandchildren think I look weird ?? " or whatever, my only thought in that moment should be ow and that's final.

I always act like I don’t care what people think.

I think I shouldn’t care… but I think I’m starting to.

Because I weirdly care what he thinks, what’s on his mind when he looks my way and laughs.

One side of my brain says it’s because he’s making fun of me, the other says it’s because he gets fluttery thoughts when he sees me too.

Because I weirdly care what she thinks, what’s on her mind when we tease each other in class.

One side of my brain says she finds me annoying and pities me to the point where she doesn’t say anything, the other says her brain goes fuzzy when I smile just like mine does when she laughs.

Because I weirdly care what they think, when me and my friends laugh loudly during morning time.

One side of my brain says they think we’re funny, the other side says we’re annoying and should shut up.

And my thoughts get so loud sometimes…

So loud I even wonder what I think of myself.

I hate that I care what people think.

It makes everything so much harder.

I want to add that it is implied our entire lives that if we succeed in this pefect possible trajectory, then everything will work out well afterwards, and I can say from personal experience that this is NOT always the case.

I think that when we tell teenagers that their lives will be over if they don't have the most perfect possible trajectory through the education system, that this is, perhaps, if I may be bold, not good for them,

We'll never have the conversations we've had in my head