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Normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in you regardless of what they tell you. Giving you all of the right words, but none of the right actions is called manipulation. If a person wants to be with you, they prove it. Period.
How to be more Confident
- Develop new skills
- Get comfortable being uncomfortable
- Stop talking over people and learn to listen
- Always be willing to learn and accept that you don't know everything
- Stop trying to prove yourself
- Walk into places like you deserve to be there... because you do
- Talk to yourself like you would someone you love
- Do one thing every day that scares you
- Do one thing different every day thats outside of your routine
- Limit your screen time
- Consume content that helps you grow and exemplifies the life you want
- Value your time
- Realize you only have one life
- Use the "okay and" mentality
- Create the ideal version of yourself and practice it consistently until it becomes you
- Fix your posture
- Take care of your inner and outer appearance
- Create routines
- Stop trying to achieve perfection
- Talk to strangers
- Practice complimenting others
- Accept and confront your emotions so you can learn how to overcome them
I would say that I fit the description of a relaxed woman laid out here. My focus in life at this point is to experience life. I don't bow to men or societal demands. I proudly identify as a slut and enjoy exploring my needs and desires regardless of what others might think.
With age, comes maturity and wisdom and the realization that the opinions of others have no power over a person who willing to stay true to themselves.
(via (25) Pinterest)
Absolutely!! 💯 Once you realize that you ARE good enough and the only person who's happiness you can control in this life, you will attract the people who will genuinely want to be there for you.
Once we start loving ourselves, people no longer seem good to us unless they are actually good for us.
I received mey a woman who praised me because she loved how authentic and free I was about being myself.
The way our authentic self effects others around us is powerful. Be yours and stay true to that and you will always have happiness inside to light your way.
I adore this because it's me 💕
Leave toxic people in your past. for shelbys-advice-blog 💕
Doesn't matter if you are a butch, a femme or a transwoman, you are beautiful as long as you accept who you are. What others think has no bearing on your beauty, inside or out.
This is one of the best captions I've ever run across. It came from a blog that is sadly no longer on tumblr. Thought it was worth reposting.
Because it is true. All of it. 🤍
This is so powerful and so true!!
This..♥️☝️
Very true....
........ WOW!
Some people you will meet are all marketing... no substance--borrowed images and stolen words. Stylish choices... without original thought. Be discerning, selective, and disciplined. Passionate women drip with pure intensity in every aspect of life--their humor, their playfulness, their words, their tears, their work, their love, their struggles--not just their delicious sensuality. You cannot cherry pick her ardor. Show up for all of her with intention. Her energy, her submissive heart, her erotic mind, her sacred soul are gifts... not a given.
- Viv
It’s time to get clear about what you want. It’s time to get clear about what you need. It’s time to get clear about what you value. It’s time to get clear about what you deserve.
Empowering and enlightening.
"Erotic Existence … [O]nce we begin to feel deeply all the aspects of our lives, we begin to demand from ourselves and from our life-pursuits that they feel in accordance with that joy which we know ourselves to be capable of. Our erotic knowledge empowers us, becomes a lens through which we scrutinize all aspects of our existence, forcing us to evaluate those aspects honestly in terms of their relative meaning within our lives. The erotic is a resource within each of us that lies in a deeply female and spiritual plane, firmly rooted in the power of our unexpressed or unrecognized feeling. Of course, women so empowered are dangerous. So we are taught to separate the erotic from most vital areas of our lives other than sex."
— Audre Lorde
Sometimes I really think people don't consider the power of just telling someone you like them. Romantically obviously, but even platonically too. Admitting you enjoy having people in your life doesn’t need to be a mind game. When you are sincere and true with your thoughts and intentions you attract the types of people who WANT to be close to you.