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A little reminder

If anyone ever tells you that you won’t look good with a piercing or haircut/dye. Don’t let them determine how you look. You’ll look amazing with it and they will never know it until they see the true you shine with excitement once you get it.

Oh man, I just can't stand people who gets furious because other people's headcanons/AU. Like, if you don't like this kind of thing, just don't search, don't follow anyone, and stay in the group that just like the exactly same thing as the original work wants to say.

I'm doing college about Arts, I know that the moment a piece of art is available to other people, the piece isn't mine anymore. When you share something you created, you have to know that the viewers/followers will have their own interpretation and meaning of that.

And that's ok!

It's like a song! A group of people can listen to the same song, but surely they will have different meanings for them, and it's very possible that the meaning is different from the author original meaning. And that's ok, that's not a problem. Will you complain to someone else just because the meaning of a song for them it's different of yours? Or because they have created a meaning that just meant for them?

Different meanings are what makes art being art. If the art didn't have viewers, it would lost its meaning. If art didn't have different meanings for each one, it would lost its meaning.

I saw many people fighting and complaining about people who are wrinting about Gojo being alive. Like, man.... Just leave this people alone! Anyone can do your own headcanons and AU's! It's how many fandoms works. Just because I do an AU or a headcanon that isn't exactly same thing as the original work, it doesn't mean I hate the author or the work or I'm disrespecting or anything else. I just want to do something thinking about "how would it be if a thing/chatacter/event/time was different?" It's just for fun.

If I did everything like the original work, well, what I'm doing? It doesn't makes sense to make something thats equal to the original, and sounds like just a copy/plagiarism.

Like I said before, if you don't like those things, just don't spend your time with that, specially saying things not very cool to those people who are fans too and are just having fun.

If a headcanon or AU isn't a crime (like, envolving bad things and etc), it' ok to create one!

Do you know What If from Marvel? It's something like that, you imagine a thing/a world/whatever with something different in the story.

Stop complaining with fan authors/artists with their fan work. If you don't like because isn't the same as the original, just go out and go see the original piece!

For example, there is AUs/headcanons that I don't like, but isn't because of that I have the right to scold the author/artist. I just don't consume! It's so simple!

"OH, but you have to accept the fact that (whatever) happened!"

Oh my dear, I accept the facts of the things, if the original author made a decision, it's their decision. Nobody will changes it.

And that's alright! But it doesn't mean that in my fanwork I can't do something different from the original decision. Because I'm doing my decisions, and they will be different from the original. It doesn't mean I don't accept the facts.

Like, Gojo is dead. And nothing will change it. I know. And I know it is very hard that Gege will do a Jujutsu Kaisen 2, and I'm okay with that. Gege made their decisions, somethings I agree, another ones, not so much. But that's ok! Nobody will agree 100% with the decisions of an author. (or anybody else tbh)

If someone wants to do an AU where Gojo/Nanami/Choso/Sukuna/whatever is still alive or whatever, just let the person do it! Isn't of your business to say what a fan author/artist (or any person) should or shouldn't do.

Again, if you don't like, just leave! Stop bothering the other people who just want to have a little joy in this hard life.

I don't know if what I wrote is understandable, English isn't my first language, but I hope I could imply what I wanted to say.

If you like doing AUs/Headcanons, go on! Have joy!

And if you don't like it, just leave and be happy with other things.

Sorry for the vent, but I have seen many people complaining about AUs/headcanons that aren't faithfully equal to the original, people saying that "you have to accept that it happened, you can't deny, you can't change it"

For the God sake, just let the people have fun. Nobody is committing a crime for creating an AU where a character isn't dead!

I think that's all I have to say. Again, sorry for the vent, but I can't stand these behaviors.

Be respectful with other people. And if you have a different opinion of mine (or any other person), It's totally OK! Just don't be an asshole.

Society has set the norm to a "regular" family and then flips out when people try to break it.

Wanna be a stay at home husband? That's weird

Want to adopt kids even though you can conceive? Why would you do that

Single mom by choice? So lonely you must have given up

Same sex couple trying to start a family? It's unnatural

People can be so ignorant sometimes. I hope that wherever you go you'll find someone to support your every decision💖

So uh. I love my friends a lot and I send one of my friends who’s hella depressed some be yourself lines inspired by SPG songs with their Spotify banner. Sunday was Only Human and today was Electricity is in my soul.

I swear to god I did not mean to make myself sound SLIGHTLY LIKE RABBIT TO HER LMFAO

And, most importantly...

me{whilst writing a comment on youtube to sleep music}some time last year.(guess i went all out)(0~0;)

I just want to tell the people who really need to hear encouragement for all their hardships.

This comment section is filled with absolutely broken ,vulnerable and kind souls,who have had their faith tested and trialed.

maybe not religiously ,

but there are so many of us,people like you and me,

who have almost given up on life after losing everything,

those of us who long for pure love and affection,

the dreamers who yearn for the untouchable ethereal stars,

the writers who have lost days on end,

feeling hopelessly empty on the inside.

desolate and pessimistic and at times cynical as well.. to all of you.

NO, TO ALL OF US..

I am not going to tell you that everything will be better,

if i did that then i would be giving you false confidence,

life doesn't always give us times of hope and rewards for our hard work ,i know that it isn't fair

but it teaches us so many things that we never could have understood

nor believed take place in our cruel world.

I know that there are those times

where we just want to disappear,

to question your existence in the mirror,

to feel so much pain that you can't express in words ,

to be able to look up at the beautiful night sky ,

to just lay on the grass and not be bothered about anything else,

to not be able to tell those people whom you normally converse with ,

about our problems and guilt and responsibilities ,

to get the countless things that you have to get done today. . .

GET IT OFF YOUR CHEST.

Some times we all just need to breathe.

just keep breathing !

because i hope and wish and pray that all of you ,

whoever you may be ,if you needed that reason to keep hangin on ..

I hope that this message reaches you !

to tell you the truth, to tell you that you are not alone ,

I feel you.

I know how it feels but still after all that I have gone through here I am..

Still fighting my battle, an absolutely imperfect and an extremely broken person

but still I smile when I feel happy because

I am who I am

and you are who you are

and we are perfect and brave and beautiful and handsome and amazing and strong.

that's why i want you to keep holding on!

because one day someone in this world will see you as i do,

they will see you as an amazing and strong and brave person

for fighting all that you have been through.

They will embrace and accept and kiss your scars and will love you for you ,for the real you.

So keep fighting!

because you deserve to be loved and adored and all you have to do now is breathe.

don't take up other's bullshit.

don't get bullied,

don't feel devastated over a breakup,

PLEASE,

PLEASE DON'T TRY TO TAKE YOUR LIFE BECAUSE OF WHAT SOMEONE DID TO YOU!

YOU ARE SOO BRILLIANT AND SO AMAZING AND SO UNIQUE AND SO YOU !

I WANT YOU TO FIGHT WITH ALL THAT IS LEFT IN YOU ,

WITH THAT TINY AMOUNT OF COURAGE,FIGHT

AND SHOW THOSE WHO DARED TO TOUCH YOU , MAIM YOU OR SCAR YOU ,PHYSICALLY OR MENTALLY,

THAT YOU ARE STRONGER THAN THEIR MAL INTENTIONS AND THEIR INHUMANITY.

PLEASE, SHINE BRIGHT AND KNOW THAT

STARS SHINE BRIGHTER THAN EVER IN THE PITCH BLACK SKY

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.

AND LOVE YOURSELF

YOU ARE DOING AMAZING SWEETIE,

JUST KEEP GOING ,

ONLY A LITTLE WHILE LONGER!

for those who have read this message until the end , I know you needed that ,I hope it helps you!

Relationships are built on valid boundaries, healthy compromises, and TRUST

If someone is insecure enough to police who their partner can and cannot speak to, they seriously gotta learn to love themselves because they are NOT ready to love anyone else yet.

She keeps saying phrases with the sentences “when we live together” and I can’t help but wonder when would be the best time to drop “IF we make it”

Because there’s no way in fuck I’d consider that with any people she’s fucked in the past still in her life, when she suggested she’d like me to get rid of the people she felt uncomfortable me having on social media—and I dropped them in a heartbeat.

PREACH

THIS!!!

I am tired of these videos, and I know some black girls are sometimes requesting people to make these types of videos but come on it’s 2019 we not out here seeking validation from ANYONE. I don’t care what any of these other races think of me, I wish people would stop making these types of videos cuz they’re annoying. As for the black little girls requesting stuff like this, please stop cuz y'all end up hurt because the people of other races don’t say what you want them to. You are BEAUTIFUL, GORGEOUS, INTELLIGENT, INNOVATIVE, TRENDSETTERS, and don’t need anyone to tell you that. Let’s stop this mess. (This also applies to them Light skin vs dark skin public asking videos, keep that shit off the internet)

There’s something about the Holy Spirit that has filled me with love and unspeakable joys. I wish that for you.

can someone recommend some beginner normal behaviors for someone looking to become normal

Whenever i watch a new show or play a new game and then join the fandom, i would always make a self insert oc and either make this oc punch someone i hate in a show or make a loving family with a character i love in a show.

I even make scenarios of how the fandom would react to my oc and sometimes if i liked the actor/actress of the character as well, i think of myself as the actor for my oc and then ship myself with the actor. And then think of the fan base shipping us as well...

Shiny mimikyu is more whiter than normal even though shiny pikachu is darker yellow, which can mean that mimikyu accepted that he cant be pikachu and shouldnt be anything except himself and embraced it by going away from the pikachu style.

Be.Your.Self

It's okay to be yourself. Stop trying to fit in with others who don't appreciate who you are as a person, it's okay to fit in sometimes but don't do it all the time because then it'll seem like you're "trying too hard" but you're not! Those who judge you for how you look or for how you dress are miserable with their own lives and wish they could do the things you do and be like you because you're inspirational.

Stop trying to be someone who you are not.

i love intense people. fast replies, lots of messages, tell me you day in detail, talk about your interests and hyperfixations, let's get passionate about the moon and the universe and life and let's dream that we're in a roof in paris drinking and staring at the sky like we're gonna live forever and read poetry aloud.