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β©κFinding Peace: 5 Tips For Managing Stress And Living A Balance Life
"You can be happy about anything. You can be happy about life. You can be happy about music. You can be happy about food. You can be happy about sleep. You can be happy about others, and I can be happy about STAYs"
-bangchan straykids.
In this blog, we will explore various tips and strategies to help you manage stress and live a more balanced life. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by work, school, or personal responsibilities, this blog will provide you with helpful information and resources to help you find the peace and balance you're looking for !:
by: π§·Β΄ bloomzone π Χ Χ
βΉ .αself care !
Taking care of yourself is incredibly important, not only for your physical health, but for your mental health as well. When you prioritize self-care, you're able to better handle stress, have more energy and feel more positive and relaxed.Some examples of self-care activities that can help with stress management include exercise, mindfulness and meditation, spending time with friends and family, journaling, and finding time for hobbies you enjoy. Remember, putting yourself first is not selfish, it is necessary to maintain balance in life.
βΉ .α mindfulness
Mindfulness involves paying attention to your thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations in a non-judgmental way. It's about being present and fully immersed in the moment, without getting lost in thoughts of the future or past.By practicing it you can develop greater clarity and focus, as well as reduce stress and improve emotional balance. It can also help to increase self-awareness, which can be helpful in managing difficult emotions and situations. U can practiced through activities such as meditation, deep breathing, or simply paying mindful attention to your daily activities.
βΉ .α healthy coping with mechanism
Healthy coping mechanisms are strategies or activities that help people manage difficult emotions and situations in a healthy way. Some examples : exercising, journaling, spending time in nature, meditating, talking to a friend, engaging in a creative activity, or listening to music, traveling with friends somewhere...By utilizing healthy coping mechanisms, u can be able to manage stress and emotions in a positive and productive way, rather than resorting to unhealthy coping methods such as substance abuse, binging, or self-harm.
βΉ .αstrong relationships
In addition to providing emotional and social support, strong relationships can also help with stress in other ways. For example, they can provide a sense of security and stability, which can reduce feelings of anxiety and stress. Relationships can also provide distractions from stressors, which can help to reduce the perception of stress. Furthermore, relationships can provide opportunities for laughter and fun, which can help to regulate stress hormones and reduce physical symptoms of stress. Overall, strong relationships can play a significant role in managing stress and promoting overall well-being.
βΉ .αhealthy boundaries
Setting healthy boundaries is an important skill for managing stress and maintaining overall well-being. They refer to the limits and preferences that individuals set for themselves in their relationships with others. They enable individuals to protect themselves from stress, maintain self-respect, and preserve their energy and timel.involves clearly communicating one's limits, needs, and expectations to others for example Saying no when you need to and not feeling guilty about it,Communicating your needs and desires openly and honestly,Not tolerating disrespectful or harmful behavior from others,Scheduling time for self-care and activities that you enjoy, Protecting your personal space and time It requires a balance between being firm and flexible. Healthy boundaries can help to reduce stress by protecting individuals from harmful or manipulative behaviors, and by ensuring that their needs and desires are respected and acknowledged.
Δ±llΔ±Β β :Β In short, managing stress and finding balance in life is key to mental health. Self-care, mindfulness, healthy coping mechanisms, strong relationships, and boundaries + there is a lot of tips.. can help reduce stress and improve well-being.Take care of urself and set healthy limits to live a happier, less stressed life βΉ3. β‘Β !!
HOW TO CHOOSE FRIENDS: THE ULTIMATE GUIDE
"It's gonna be okay, like the hands on the clock they'll go in circles back to their places."
-seventeen
κ³. !ΛChoosing friends is an important aspect of our lives, as the company we keep significantly impact our well-being, mindset, and personal growth.
by: π§·Β΄ bloomzone π Χ Χ
When it comes to selecting friends, it's essential to consider a few key factors First and foremost, look for individuals who share similar values and principles friends who align with your core beliefs and morals are more likely to provide supportive and understanding environment where you can thrive authentically.Another crucial aspect is mutual respect Seek out friends who respect your boundaries, opinions, and decisions. Likewise, make sure you offer the same level of respect to them (give respect to receive respect easy !). A healthy friendship is built on a of mutual understanding and consideration.Furthermore, consider the positive influence a potential friend has on you. Surround yourself with people who encourage inspire, and motivate you to be the best version of yourself. A great friend uplifts and empowers you, offering constructive feedback and your successes.Emotional support is also vital in friendships. Look for individuals who are there for you during both good and challenging times offering empathy, compassion, and a listening ear when you need it most (ikr it's hard to found them π) Likewise, be sure to reciprocate this support and be a source of strength for your friends.
Lastly, consider the impact of their company on your life. Good friends encourage growth, bring joy, and contribute to meaningful experiences Aim to surround yourself with individuals who contribute positively to your life and foster an environment where you can thrive choosing who align with your values, offer genuine support, and positively contribute to your life can lead to deep, fulfilling, and enduring relationships.
Δ±llΔ±Β β :Β Surround yourself with friends who not only accept you for who you are but also challenge you to grow, cheer you on during your highest highs, and stand by you through your lowest lows. Remember, true friends are the ones who bring out the best in you, support your dreams, and fill your life with love, laughter, and positivity. Take care of yourself 143 β‘Β β !!
i hope from june to december, our lives change for the better !
i love this blog so muchπ god bless you girly
thanks sweetie pie οΌοΈΏοΌ
Hiii sparklers..I hope y'all are fine I want to say thank you so so so much for the love and support in my lastests posts your positive and lovely messages mean the world to me it's make me keep going and make me motivated .. thank youuu so much lvyy..βΉ3
β³α§ βΉEmbracing the Art of I don't chase I attract mindset :
"Best revenge? Smile, be happy and never let them know it hurt."
-goo hara from kara (rest in peace ποΈ)
The mindset of "I don't chase, I attract" revolves around the principles of self-confidence, self-worth, and the law of attraction. Instead of actively pursuing what we desire, this mindset encourages us to focus on personal growth and positivity, believing that by doing so, we naturally draw in the opportunities and experiences meant for us.
Here are 16 tips to adopt this mindset effectively:
by: π§·Β΄ bloomzone π Χ Χ
1.Focus on Self-Improvement: Invest in yourself by learning new skills, engaging in activities that fulfill you, and prioritizing your well-being. When you feel good about yourself, you radiate positive energy that attracts like-minded people and opportunities.
2. Set Clear Intentions: Be specific about what you want in life. Whether it's a new job, a meaningful relationship, or personal development, having clear intentions helps you stay focused and aligned with your goals.
3. Practice Positive Affirmations: Reinforce your self-worth and confidence through daily affirmations. Statements like "I am worthy of success" or "I attract positive opportunities" can help shift your mindset and energy (the white swan affirmations)
4.Visualize Your Goals: Spend time each day imagining your goals as if they've already been achieved. This practice helps create a positive mental image and aligns your actions with your desires.
5. Trust the Process: Have faith that what is meant for you will come to you in its own time. Avoid forcing outcomes or chasing after things. Trust that by staying true to yourself and your goals, the right opportunities will present themselves naturally.
6. Surround Yourself with Positivity: Keep positive influences around you, whether it's people, environments, or content. Positivity fosters a high vibrational state that attracts good things into your life.
7. Cultivate Gratitude: Regularly express gratitude for what you already have. This practice helps you focus on the positive aspects of your life and creates an abundance mindset, which attracts more good things to you.
8. Let Go of Fear and Doubt: Work on releasing fears and doubts that hold you back. Fear and doubt create resistance and block the flow of positive energy. Embrace a mindset of faith and trust in the process.
9. Engage in Mindfulness and Meditation: Incorporate mindfulness practices and meditation into your routine. These practices help you stay present, reduce stress, and maintain a positive outlook, making you more receptive to opportunities.
10. Take Inspired Action: While attracting involves less chasing, it doesn't mean being passive. Take actions that feel right and aligned with your goals, but do so from a place of inspiration rather than desperation.
11. Embrace Change and Adaptability: Be open to change and willing to adapt. Sometimes, the path to what you desire requires adjustments and flexibility. Embracing change can lead to unexpected and rewarding opportunities.
12. Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself. Acknowledge your efforts and progress, and don't be too hard on yourself when things don't go as planned. Self-compassion fosters a positive and resilient mindset.
13. Seek Joy and Fun: Engage in activities that bring you joy and make you feel alive. Joyful experiences raise your vibrational energy and attract more positive situations and people into your life.
14. Learn to Listen to Your Intuition: Trust your inner voice and gut feelings. Your intuition can guide you toward opportunities that align with your true self and help you avoid situations that aren't right for you.
15. Develop a Growth Mindset: Embrace challenges as opportunities to learn and grow. A growth mindset helps you stay resilient and open to new possibilities, making it easier to attract what you desire.
16. Celebrate Small Wins: Recognize and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. Celebrating progress keeps you motivated and reinforces the positive mindset needed to attract more success.
Δ±llΔ±Β β : This mindset encourages u to trust in ur abilities . Remember that each step taken with mindfulness and resilience brings us closer to ur dreams.βΒ β β‘Β β !!
Summer Fitness Challenge: Your Guide to a Stronger, Healthier body
Show them what youβre made of your endless nights deserve a loud ovation shine bright and prove them wrong cause we can feel our progress
-straykids (song : blind spot)
Hi Sparkles! β This is the last blog in our first important blog series! I hope the previous six blogs were helpful and informative. Let's dive into a quick and effective summer workout routine to keep you fit and energized during the sunny months
Summer Workout Routine
Summer is the perfect time to revitalize your fitness routine and enjoy the great outdoors. Whether youβre looking to get in shape or maintain your current fitness level, this quick and effective workout plan will help you stay active and energized all summer long Hereβs a routine you can follow (6 days in a week) :
by: π§·Β΄ bloomzone π Χ Χ
Day 1: Full Body Workout
Start your week strong with a full-body workout.
- Warm-up: 5 minutes of light cardio (jogging, jumping jacks)
- Squats: 3 sets of 12 reps
- Push-ups: 3 sets of 10 reps
- Plank: 3 sets of 30 seconds
Day 2: Cardio and Core
Burn calories and strengthen your core.
- Warm-up:5 minutes of dynamic stretches
- HIIT: 20 minutes (alternate 30 seconds of sprinting with 30 seconds of walking)
Day 3: Active Rest
Give your muscles a break while staying active.
- Activity: Light walking, swimming, or yoga for 30 minutes (don't overwork yourself)
Day 4: Lower Body Focus
Focus on building strength in your lower body.
- Warm-up: 5 minutes of light cardio
- Lunges: 3 sets of 12 reps per leg
- Glute Bridges: 3 sets of 15 reps
Day 5: Upper Body Focus
Target your upper body for a balanced physique.
- Warm-up: 5 minutes of light cardio
- Dumbbell Bench Press: 3 sets of 12 reps
- Bicep Curls: 3 sets of 15 reps
Day 6: Cardio and Stretching
End your week with cardio and flexibility work.
- Warm-up: 5 minutes of dynamic stretches
- Steady-State Cardio: 30 minutes (running, cycling, or brisk walking)
- Stretching: 10 minutes of full-body stretches
Day 7: Rest Day
Allow your body to recover:Complete rest or light activity like a leisurely walk and give yourself a self care day !!
Tips for Success
1. Stay Hydrated: Drink plenty of water throughout the day, especially during and after workouts.
2. Eat Well: Focus on a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains (or if u are programming to follow a diet click here ! )
3. Be Consistent: Stick to the routine and adjust as needed based on your fitness level.
4. Listen to Your Body: Rest if you feel overly fatigued or experience any pain.
Δ±llΔ±Β β :Β As you continue on your fitness journey, keep setting new goals and challenging yourself. Adjust the intensity of your workouts as needed and explore different activities to keep your routine enjoyable and engaging. Fitness is a journey, and each step you take brings you closer to ur body goal .β β‘Β β !!
βΉMASTER LISTβΉ
ΰ₯« Φ’ΦΈ Ϋ« list number 2γ € Λ π ΰ» Χ κ±
ππ - glow up diary
-#1 mindset [done]
-#2self love [done]
-#3self care [done]
-#4boundaries [done]
-#5passion [done]
-#6romanticizing life [done]
-#7motivation (yt channels) [done]
school ver. back 27/08/2024
ππ - morning affirmations [done]
check on list number 1 if u want to ;)
Empowering morning affirmations : start your day righ
"The only way to achieve your dreams is to work hard, stay focused and never give up."
- Jennie (BLACKPINK)
by: π§·Β΄ bloomzone π Χ Χ
౨ৠI am grateful for this new day and all the opportunities it brings.
౨ৠI am confident and capable of achieving my goals.
౨ৠI am surrounded by love and positivity.
౨ৠI am in control of my thoughts and emotions.
౨ৠI am grateful for this new day and all the opportunities it brings.
౨ৠI am confident and capable of achieving my goals.
౨ৠI am surrounded by love and positivity.
౨ৠI am in control of my thoughts and emotions.
౨ৠI am strong, resilient, and can handle whatever comes my way.
౨ৠI am worthy of success and happiness.
౨ৠI attract abundance and prosperity into my life.
౨ৠI am at peace with who I am and who I am becoming.
౨ৠI am open to new experiences and opportunities.
౨ৠI radiate confidence, self-respect, and inner harmony.
౨ৠI am healthy, energetic, and full of vitality.
౨ৠI am focused, motivated, and productive.
౨ৠI trust the process of life and know that everything is unfolding as it should.
౨ৠI am a positive thinker and only attract positivity in my life.
౨ৠI am deserving of all the good things that happen to me.
౨ৠI am proud of all my achievements, big and small.
౨ৠI am a magnet for love, joy, and abundance.
౨ৠI am continuously growing and evolving into a better version of myself.
౨ৠI am calm, patient, and in harmony with the universe.
౨ৠI am grateful for the love and support I receive from others.
GLOW UP DIARY : #1.MINDSET IS EVERYTHING
Life is beautiful galaxy be a writer, genre is fantasy what opens up to me tomorrow is a big, big stage so that is who I am
- ive (song : i am )
Hey heeey sparkles...today is the first part of glow up diary "mindset"..so grab ur notebook and let's guaaaar !
by: π§·Β΄ bloomzone π Χ Χ
#1 MINDSET
First of all bbg ur mindset is more than just a mindset it's a guiding force that influences how you perceive the world, respond to challenges, and ultimately create the life you envision.
THE IDGAF MINDSET IS THE KEY !
οΉ βΏ οΉthey don't like you..they don't like ur style,hair,music taste, interests ? I DON'T CARE YOU ARE YOU I'M ME ! the idgaf mindset is the solution.. everytime someone say something bad about u think and answer like ok and ? Who the fvck care ?. Stop caring about what ppl think about you IT'S YOU VS YOU stop caring about what other say about u . For example if one of ur friends come up to you and say "____ talk sh* about u" don't ask about what that person said abt u it doesn't matter cuz ur life revolve around u and only u. Life become easier once you stop reacting to negativity and that the GOAL cut off friends who bring don't bring u happiness and only bad mood but surround yourself with friends who bring u positivity and motivate you.
TIPS AND HOW TO START BUILDING YOUR OWN MINDSET:
ππ βΉ β§ start with listening to podcasts (click here) watch thewizardliz (click here) it will help u so much.π
ππ βΉ β§ break up with friends who hurted you before if they are from ur family distance urself ;)
ππ βΉ β§ stop and STOP creating bad scenario on your mind cuz it will effect on ur mood , be positive π
ππ βΉ β§ make yourself a propriety act like the person u want to become and always be grateful of what u have rn don't say "why ___ is more popular than me" "why I'm not this pretty?" Cuz this will effect u and u will start overthinking..so be grateful of what u have cuz god have always a better plan for u honey !π
ππ βΉ β§ stay private don't tell ppl ur goal and ur future plan !
ππ βΉ β§ don't listen to ppl who will bring u down they choose to hate u let them sit with that feeling it's not ur fault to focus on your self girlie π
ππ βΉ β§ start to don't give a sht about what ppl say behind your back stop oversharing ur personal life (this is the big fault ..u should avoid this and trust me pretty that oversharing=problems)
ππ βΉ β§just be yourself but with a better mindset cuz u are the only one who know your worth never let anyone costume u or disrespect you "you changed" always say yes for my worth for my future self what do you think u are ? .. if they don't call u, don't respond to ur text put ur phone away go have a good day set boundaries make ppl respect you like if u walk in a room ppl will say "she an unbothered queen fr".You live for yourself sweetie everyone else is second. π
Δ±llΔ±Β β :Β π i believe in you and you should believe in yourself to make it happen..take care xoxo .
by: π§·Β΄ bloomzone π Χ Χ Χ Χ β β‘Β β !!
GLOW UP DIARY:#2 LOVE YOURSELF FIRST
" It's everyone's first time living this life, how can you be good right from the start? Even I'm still having a hard time."
- Hoshi (seventeen)
heyy sparkles...so today it's the second part of the glow up diary..btw thank you so so much for the support in the first part "mindset is everything" I'm looking forward to update more part !!
Β©: bloomzone
#2 SELF LOVE
βοΈ:first of all sweetie self-love is the practice of appreciating and caring for yourself through actions that support your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. It involves self-acceptance, positive self-talk
Self-love is the first step to a happier life.
οΉ βΏ οΉ being beautiful mean being yourself you don't need to be accepted by others you need to accept yourself your features are so so so beautiful you don't even know how u look in eyes of a stranger. Ur nose is in the right shape ur skin is so pretty no matter the color is ur eyes are so pretty ur height is perfect ur hair color is breathtaking u don't need to fit any beauty standards to be THAT GIRL and stuff,those imperfections like acnes scars body hair they don't change u they don't define your beauty you are beautiful inside and out ..
HOW TO BUILD SELF ACCEPTANCE
ππ- accept yourself just as you are your flaws the good and bad replace self jugement with self acceptance take a paper or just if u have a diary or journal and write I LOVE MYSELF I ACCEPT MYSELF THE WAY I AM . π
ππ- write down in ur diary/ journal/note app in the end of the day "how you feel",it helps u release emotions, reducing stress and anxiety. It encourages self-reflection, leading to better understanding of your thoughts and feelings. π
ππ- daily affirmations is important always compliment yourself like "I love myself the way I am" "my body is perfect" "I accept myself"...π
ππ- Notice negative self-talk and challenge it by questioning its validity and replacing it with more realistic and positive thoughts never talk sh about urself bbg ;)
ππ- watch this video (click here) it will help u so so so much <3
ππ- meditate,spend more time outside, listen to your favorite playlist, don't forget to not listen to what other say about you just focus on u and how ur body work .. You are more than a beautiful face, you are intelligent, compassionate, and an all-around wonderful person. Don't let anyone take away your shine.β
ππ- Always remember that you are worthy and don't change who you are for anyone stay true to yourself and never doubt how beautiful you truly are. Keep smiling and remember that you are so loved and special. You light up every room and liam proud of you and don't let anyyyyyyyooooone let u down "look she is more pretty than" who care say I'm also pretty and everyone is different .π
Δ±llΔ±Β β :Β β take care of yourself u are not alone n you are special xoxo .β‘Β β !!
Β©bloomzone !
GLOW UP DIARY:#3 the power of self-care
"If you don't have a dream, that's okay too. It's possible not to have a dream. If you're happy, that's all that matters"
-Suga
heyy sparkles...so today it's the third part of the glow up and thank you so so much T-T for the support in the second part
Edit: haircare,nail care is for apparence part I focused on routines,skincare,body care in this part (I'm so busy these days T-T<3)
Β© bloomzone
#3 SELF CARE
βοΈ : Self-care includes activities like eating well, exercising, and relaxing to maintain physical, mental, and emotional health. It's essential for managing stress and enhancing overall well-being.
Self-care is essential for maintaining balance
οΉ βΏ οΉTaking care of yourself is about finding simple, comforting routines that make you feel good. Start with small steps, like taking a relaxing bath,do ur skincare , journal...Prioritize these moments and remember that they are just as important as anything else on your to-do list. Celebrate your progress, no matter how small, and choose activities that genuinely make you happy. Listen to your body and give yourself the rest and care you need. By focusing on what brings you comfort and joy, you'll create a self-care routine that feels natural and rewarding.
HOW TO START SELF-CARE ?
Have a routine: It is really important to have a routine because if not you could have bad sleeping, be tired all day, get boredeasily, won't be able to finish responsibilities, it can bring you bad self esteem, unmotivated and in general is a complete mess.
Example of a routine (by me)
summer version.
β°( wake up at 4:30am to pray ifajr if u are a Muslim :) )
β‘ οΎwake up at 9:30am
β‘ οΎmake bed
β‘ οΎdrink water
β‘ οΎmorning stretch 15min
β‘ οΎskincare/quick shower
β‘ οΎbreakfast
β‘ οΎhelp mom if needed
β‘ οΎphone time
β°(pray duhr if u are Muslim:) )
β‘ οΎlunch time
β‘ οΎnap
β‘ οΎfull workout
β°(pray asr if you are Muslim:) )
β‘ οΎstart learning a language,see friends or simply watch a movie
β°(pray Maghrib if you are a Muslim :) )
β‘ οΎhelp mom cooking dinner
β‘ οΎwash dishes
β‘ οΎcheck social
β‘ οΎskincare
β‘ οΎget ready for bed
β‘ οΎsleep at 10pm
Things u can add to your routine :
cleaning ur room
- wardrobe
- desk
cooking
- I will share my fav recipes in next blogs π€«
set goals for next year
- academic goals
- life goals ( saving money,body goal ...)
sunday self care day routine
summer version
β°( salat al fajr + reading Quran for Muslims)
β‘ οΎwake up at 9am
β‘ οΎdo ur bed
β‘ οΎmeditation
β‘ οΎskincare + face mask
β‘ οΎjournal/affirmations
β‘ οΎice coffee/tea
β‘ οΎmorning stretch 15min
β‘ οΎbreakfast
β‘ οΎhelp in cleaning
β‘ οΎwear ur fit
β‘ οΎgo shopping
β°(pray duhr in masjid if u luv to :) )
β‘ οΎlunch
β‘ οΎfull workout
πeverything shower time
- hair mask
- shave
- body care
πafter shower
- dry your hair
- clean/paint ur nails
- wear ur comfy pyjamas
β‘ οΎwatch a movie
β°(pray Maghrib if you are Muslim)
β‘ οΎquality time with ur family/friends
πget ready for bed
- write down what u achieve this week
- affirmations
β°(pray Isha if u are Muslim)
β‘ οΎskincare
β‘ οΎget ur beauty sleep at 10pm
SELF-CARE BODYCARE AND SKINCARE
1.skincare
οΉ βΏ οΉ I know that we all love shopping and buying things because it's pink or aesthetic or it's just because it's a famous products NO NO this wroong u don't need to buy a whole truck of innisfree products because it's pink or glow recipe buy products that will work for u if u have acnes and ur face hurt everytime u try to sleep or u wanna just wash it,visit a dermatologist he will give the product that ur skin need to heal again. (As a girl with strict parents hhh they didn't let me go I'm 16yo btw),so I start to buy random products until I found the perfect one for my skin (I have a terrible TERRIBLE oily skin)+ if u are 12-18 don't use serum's without permission of doctor u will just broke ur skin texture I bought ordinary serum and it just make my skin worst + it's an expansive sht β οΈ
How to get rid of acne ?
β‘Β β skincare secrets !
βΉ β§avoid junk food
βΉ β§fresh vegetables and fruits
βΉ β§icing your face
βΉ β§clay mask (recommended by me)
βΉ β§avoid using a lot of skincare products
βΉ β§ simplify ur skincare routine ( cleanser,toner, moisturizer)
βΉ β§get 7-8 hour of sleep
βΉ β§rice water
βΉ β§don't sleep with ur make up
βΉ β§stay hydrate
βΉ β§change ur pillowcase (one in a week)
βΉ β§ cucumber slice as a mask
βΉ β§don't touch ur face
β‘ Β Item you need
βΉ β§pimples patches
βΉ β§silicone facial cleaner (for deep cleaning)
βΉ β§headband (keep ur hair up always)
2.BODY CARE
οΉ βΏ οΉ Taking care of your body is a vital part of feeling your best, both inside and out. A good body care routine can boost your confidence and help you embrace your natural beauty. Body care is also about self-love and taking time for yourself amidst a busy schedule remember girlie every skin type is beautiful, and finding the right routine can enhance your natural glow.
β‘ Β Body care secrets
βΉ β§ don't shave (ur body)early until u are in the right age (+17) , if u are not a hairy girl no need to shave :)
βΉ β§ shower everyday (don't wash ur hair )
βΉ β§ choose the right body wash (nivea,vaseline >>)
βΉ β§ stay hydrate avoid junk foods to protect ur body skin from pimples
βΉ β§Exfoliate your skin 1-2 times a week to remove dead skin cells and promote cell renewal. Use a gentle scrub suitable for your skin type (coconut oil brown sugar >>)
π : How to shave ur leg and have a smooth soft skin
1- soak ur leg in warm water for (3 to 5 min) to make ur skin ready
2- use ur fav body scrub and exfoliate your body from death skin
3- use something like body oil or shaving cream and find a good razor at least 3 blades (venus Gillette is on top)
4- shave with slow don't be harsh,long strock and don't forget to wash the razor everytime
5- after drying ur legs use any lotion u like to give the skin the extra moisture + using baby oil to avoid strawberry legs
βΉ β§ Choose body care products that are free from harsh chemicals and fragrances Opt for natural and gentle ingredients stay healthy girlie
βΉ β§ avoid very hot water
βΉ β§ Use natural oils like coconut oil, almond oil, or jojoba oil for deep hydration. Apply them after a shower or use them as an overnight treatment for extra softness.
β‘ Β item you need
βΉ β§ dry brush
βΉ β§ loofah
βΉ β§ natural soap (for ur π±)
βΉ β§ razor pack
βΉ β§ body scrub
βΉ β§ body wash
βΉ β§ africain exfoliating nets
βΉ β§ body moisturizer
βΉ β§ Shea butter
βΉ β§ Epsom salt
Δ±llΔ±Β β :Β β Self-care is essential for every girl to nurture her mind, body, and spirit. Taking time for yourself isnβt selfish; itβs necessary. Whether it's indulging in a relaxing bath, practicing mindfulness, or simply taking a break to read a good book, these moments help recharge your energy and boost your confidence. Remember, you deserve to feel good and be happy. Prioritizing self-care allows you to show up as your best self in every area of your life. So, take a deep breath, put yourself first, and watch how everything else falls into place. Ilvy sm β β‘Β β !!
Β© bloomzone
Hi everyooone .. I'm sorry, but some of y'all are hating on my content as hell so I've decided to disable the ask feature on my Tumblr for now.I want this page to be a positive and safe place for everyone, especially for girls. The negative comments go against the supportive environment I aim to create here. If anyone wants to ask me something, please send me a direct message instead.Thank you for your understanding and continued support.
with love bloom π
GLOW UP DIARY #4 : THE IMPORTANCE OF BOUNDARIES
"when u laugh,u think more positively"
-Park sunghoon (enhypen)
Β© bloomzone
#4 BOUNDARIES
π¬:Boundaries are limits we set for ourselves. Everyone's boundaries are different, and they are based on what is personally important to us. They can be set in several aspects of life, such as work, relationships, family, and in conflict it can be physical or emotional limits and help to determine a person's comfort level, needs, and preferences. Essentially, boundaries dictate how we want/ allow ourselves to be treated, and how we treat others. Healthy boundaries allow for accountability, respect, and open communication.
Drawing the Line: Understanding and Setting Healthy Boundaries
οΉ π οΉ If you grew up in a home where no boundaries were set or where people violated your boundaries, setting and maintaining boundaries may be difficult. It is okay if it is hard. Setting clear boundaries is not selfish, it sets the tone for healthy relationships and is an important part of one's own well being. If you ever notice you feel resentful or drained by a person/place/situation, it may be time to look at the boundaries. Remember, boundaries are not threats or ultimatums. Sometimes it is hard for other's to respect our boundaries, but this is not a reflection of you.
Healthy boundaries look like...
β’ valuing your own opinion
β’ respecting limits set by you/ others
β’ not compromising own values for someone else
β’ sharing information appropriately
β’ effectively communicating needs/wants
β’ accepting "no" from others
β’ being able to say "no"
β’ being able to identify when a boundary has been broken
TYPE OF BOUNDARIES
Physical Boundaries: These relate to personal space, physical touch, and privacy. Examples include not wanting to be hugged or feeling uncomfortable being touched without permission. "I need personal space and don't appreciate being touched without consent."
Emotional Boundaries: These separate your emotions and responsibilities from others. Examples include not allowing yourself to be blamed for someone else's issues or not taking on other people's problems. "I'm not comfortable discussing my personal feelings right now."
Mental Boundaries: These protect your beliefs, opinions, and identity from being violated. Examples include not arguing about your values or not allowing others to belittle your thoughts and ideas. "I respect your opinion, but I disagree and prefer not to discuss this further."
(there is a lot of types but I focused on these 3)
How to set boundaries
Setting boundaries may take time and practice. Don't get down on yourself if it feels hard.
1. Identify what behaviors from others is acceptable for you, and what might cause discomfort
2. Clearly communicate your boundaries with others. Learn to say no and be assertive.
3. Decide what to do if someone breaks your boundaries. This may mean a tough discussion, taking time away, or ending a relationship.
4. Get clear on your values, needs, and limits. Reflect on what's most important to you and where you need to draw lines.
5. Start small if it's hard at first. Practice with something minor before bigger issues.
6. Use "I" statements to explain your boundary without blaming, like "I'm not comfortable with..."
7. Be direct, firm, and respectful when stating your boundary. Don't over-explain or get defensive.
8. You can't control others' reactions, but you can control how you respond. Calmly reinforce the boundary if needed.
9. Be consistent in upholding your boundaries. If you allow them to be crossed, they won't be taken seriously.
Δ±llΔ±Β β :Β β Remember setting and maintaining boundaries is not about controlling others but about creating a space where respectful and healthy interactions can thrive. βΒ β β‘Β β !!
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GLOW UP DIARY #5 : FIND YOUR PURPOSE
"pain is a price to pay for happiness"
-kim seungmin (straykids)
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#5:FIND PURPOSE
βοΈ:Finding a meaningful life purpose is a profound journey that many people embark on at different stages of their lives. It involves discovering what brings fulfillment, direction, and satisfaction. Identifying a purpose can help guide decisions, inspire actions, and provide a sense of meaning in both personal and professional aspects of life.
1.Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to Finding Your Lifeβs Purpose
οΉ π οΉ we will explore the concept of Ikigai, a Japanese term that means βa reason for being.β Ikigai is important to know because it offers a pathway to finding purpose and joy in life. It involves harmonizing four key elements: what you love, what you are good at, what the world needs, and what you can be rewarded for...
2.EVERYTHING ABOUT IKIGAI
Basically, ikigai is seen as the convergence of the following four core elements:
1. What you love (your passion)
2. What the world needs (your mission)
3. What you are good at (your vocation)
4. What you can get paid for (your profession)
The word ikigai, that space in the middle of these four primary elements, is seen by the Japanese as the source of value or what make one's life truly worthwhile.
THE 10 RULES OF IKIGAI
1. Stay Active, Donβt Retire:
- The idea behind this rule is to keep your mind and body engaged in meaningful activities. Retirement doesn't mean stopping all productive work. It encourages finding activities you enjoy and continuing to contribute to society, which can provide a sense of purpose and satisfaction.
-Benefits: Staying active helps maintain cognitive function, physical health, and emotional well-being. It can prevent feelings of uselessness and isolation.
2. Take It Slow:
- Embrace a slower, more deliberate pace of life. Instead of rushing through tasks, take time to savor and appreciate the process.
- Benefits:This can reduce stress and anxiety, improve the quality of your work and help u enjoy life more fully. It encourages mindfulness and living in the present moment.
3. Donβt Fill Your Stomach:
- The 80% rule, also known as "hara hachi bu" advises stopping eating when you're 80% full, rather than completely sated.
- Benefits: This practice promotes better digestion, prevents overeating, and can lead to a healthier weight. Itβs associated with longevity and reduced risk of chronic diseases.
4. Surround Yourself with Good Friends:
- Build and maintain strong, positive relationships. Spend time with people who uplift and support you.
- Benefits: Good friends provide emotional support, reduce stress, and enhance your sense of belonging. Strong social connections are linked to better mental health and increased life expectancy.
5. Get in Shape for Your Next Birthday:
- Regular physical activity is essential for maintaining health and energy. Aim to improve or maintain your fitness level each year.
- Benefits: Exercise boosts physical health, mental clarity, and mood. It helps prevent chronic diseases, improves sleep, and enhances overall quality of life.
6. Smile:
- Adopting a positive attitude and smiling can improve your mood and the mood of those around you.
- Benefits: Smiling releases endorphins, reduces stress, and promotes a positive outlook. It can improve social interactions and relationships.
7. Reconnect with Nature:
- Spend time outdoors and appreciate the natural world. This can involve walking in parks, hiking, gardening, or simply enjoying a sunny day.
- Benefits: Nature exposure reduces stress, boosts mood, and improves mental health. It can also enhance physical health and encourage a sense of wonder and connection to the world.
8. Give Thanks:
- Practice gratitude regularly by acknowledging and appreciating the positive aspects of your life.
- Benefits: Gratitude enhances happiness, reduces negative emotions, and improves mental health. It can also strengthen relationships and foster a more positive outlook on life.
9. Live in the Moment:
- Focus on the present rather than dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. Engage fully in whatever you are doing at the moment.
- Benefits:This practice, also known as mindfulness, reduces stress and enhances enjoyment and satisfaction. It can improve mental clarity and emotional regulation.
10. Follow Your Ikigai:
-Discover and pursue your Ikigaiβthe intersection of what you love, what you are good at, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for. Let this guide your life choices and actions.
- Benefits:Finding and following your Ikigai leads to a fulfilling and meaningful life. It helps align your passions with your skills and societal contributions, resulting in a sense of purpose and happiness.
3.Discover Your Ikigai: Guided Journal Prompts for a Meaningful Life
Ikigai journal prompts can help you explore and clarify your purpose and passions. Here are some prompts to guide your reflection:
Exploring Your Passions
1. What activities make you lose track of time?
2. What did you love to do as a child that you may have forgotten about?
3. What topics or activities are you naturally drawn to?
4. When do you feel most alive and engaged?
5. If you could do anything without worrying about money or other obligations, what would it be?
Identifying Your Strengths
6. What skills or talents do you excel at?
7. What do people frequently ask for your help with?
8. What accomplishments are you most proud of?
9. What feedback have you received that highlights your strengths?
10. When have you felt most competent and capable?
Understanding What the World Needs
11. What issues or causes do you care deeply about?
12. How do you want to make a difference in the world?
13. What problems do you see in your community that you wish you could solve?
14. What do you believe the world needs more of?
15. What impact do you want to have on others' lives?
Finding What You Can Be Paid For
16. What professional roles or careers have you considered?
17. How can you monetize your skills or passions?
18. What services or products can you offer that others would pay for?
19. What industries or fields are you interested in exploring for potential income?
20. What value do you bring to your current job or any job youβve held?
Integrating Ikigai
21. How can you combine your passions, strengths, and what the world needs into a potential career or hobby?
22. What small steps can you take to start aligning your daily activities with your Ikigai?
23. What changes can you make in your life to focus more on your Ikigai?
24. Who can support you on your journey to finding and living your Ikigai?
25. What would a typical day look like if you were fully living your Ikigai?
Reflecting on Progress
26. What have you learned about yourself through this journaling process?
27. How has your understanding of Ikigai evolved over time?
28. What obstacles have you encountered in pursuing your Ikigai, and how can you overcome them?
29. What successes have you experienced in aligning your life with your Ikigai?
30. How can you maintain balance and avoid burnout while pursuing your Ikigai?
Δ±llΔ±Β β :Β β Let ur passion be your guiding star, leading you to a life filled with joy, purpose, and unshakable fulfillment.stay healthy I love u <143 βΒ β β‘Β β !!
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GLOW UP DIARY#6 : ROMANTICIZING YOUR LIFE
"Another day ahead, don't wanna leave the bed you're looking at the mirror, see the tears covered in redI know that you've been cold this whole time but now I'm here to make it end"
-straykids (track : youtiful)
hi blossoms it's been so long since I posted. . . π₯Ή miss you... Anyway I want to inform that I opened my study motivation/daily life account follow me there if u want ! ( @bloom-diary )
β-Finding Beauty in the Ordinary
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π: Boring days can feel endless and uninspiring, but they hold the potential for something special. By shifting your perspective, you can uncover the magic hidden in the mundane. Embrace the challenge of transforming those dull moments into opportunities for joy and creativity. Together, we'll explore simple ways to romanticize your daily life, turning the ordinary into the extraordinary. Remember, even the most uneventful days can become cherished memories with the right mindset. Let's make every day a little more magical!
#6.HOW TO ROMANTICIZING EVERYDAY LIFE
u can take your journey of romanticizing life to the next level embracing meaningful practices that can transform your everyday experiences into moments of joy and inspiration(remember that no matter how life get bad u can start again:) ). Start by creating rituals that bring calm and intention to your daily routineβwhether itβs a peaceful morning routine or a relaxing evening wind-down. Allow yourself to explore new places and embark on mini-adventures to break free from routine and discover the beauty around you. Connect with your creativity through personal projects and let your imagination flourish. Remember, nourishing your well-being with mindful eating and enjoyable activities can elevate your mood and bring satisfaction. Embrace the changing seasons by celebrating them with special activities and fresh dΓ©cor. Build a cozy personal sanctuary where you can reflect and recharge, and deepen your connections with others through meaningful gatherings. Practice gratitude regularly, and seek out beauty in both the big and small moments of life. Embrace these practices with an open heart, knowing that each effort you make will enrich your life and help you find joy in the ordinary.
FIND BEAUTY IN THE SMALL THINGS :
Romanticizing life involves finding beauty and joy in the everyday moments. Hereβs a guide to help you embrace this mindset:
# 1.Slow Down and Be Present
- Mindfulness: Practice mindfulness by paying attention to the present moment without judgment.
- Savor Daily Routines:Turn mundane tasks into rituals. For example, enjoy making your morning coffee or tea,make ur bed in the morning..
# 2.Create a Cozy Atmosphere
- Decorate Your Space: Add personal touches to your living space, like lights, plants, or cozy blankets it will give u motivation to have a productive day
- Ambient Lighting: Use candles or soft lighting to create a warm and inviting environment
# 3.Indulge in Simple Pleasures
- Nature Walks: Take walks in nature, paying attention to the sights, sounds, and smells.
- Reading: Find a cozy spot to read books that inspire and transport you.
- Enjoy a Homemade Dessert: Bake cookies, brownies, or a cake and savor each bite try new recipes
# 4.Cultivate a Sense of Wonder
- Explore: Visit new places, even if they are in your local area.
- Learn: Pick up a new hobby or skill that excites you new languages....
# 5.Embrace Your Senses
- Music: Create playlists that uplift or calm you.
- Creating a Sensory Jar: Fill a jar with items like sea shells, dried flowers, or colored sand for a visual and tactile experience or just memories from break days..
# 6.Practice Gratitude
- Journaling: Keep a gratitude journal to note down things youβre thankful for each day.
- Appreciation: Take time to appreciate the little things, like a beautiful sunset or a delicious meal.
# 7. Dress for Joy
- Wear What You Love: Dress in clothes that make you feel good, even if youβre not going anywhere special. (Ikr wasting a good outfit in a boring day is suck π)
- Accessorize: Use accessories that add a touch of elegance or fun to your outfits.
#8. Nurture Relationships
- Quality Time: Spend meaningful time with friends and family.
- Thoughtful Gestures: Show appreciation through small, thoughtful gestures.
#9. Celebrate Yourself
- Self-Care: Regularly engage in self-care activities that rejuvenate you.
- Achievements: Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small.
# 10. Capture Memories
- Photography: Take photos of moments that make you happy.
- Scrapbooking: Create a scrapbook or digital album to look back on fond memories.
βγ €βΉγ €π May this guide inspire you to see the beauty in your daily life and cherish every moment.
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GLOW UP DIARY #7 :top youTube channels to ignite your motivation
"I won't fall for it because I'm the smart one I never follow things that I'm not attracted to That's my style"
- kitsch by ive
my top favorite motivation youtube channel :
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- lena lifts : productive vlogs,self improvement, fitness
- alessya farrugia : skincare,mental health,workouts
- via li : productive vlogs,self care,self love
- mikealla wegner : beauty,self-care, lifestyle
- scatterbrain girl : self-love,self compassion, mental health
- mae alice suzuki : self-love, self improvement, lifestyle
- thewizardliz : self-love,self improvement,self development
- a better you podcast : girls talk,self development,self improvement
- julianna lee : style,fashion, wellness
- galacsea : productive vlogs,study vlogs
- allison beak : productive vlogs, skincare, self-care
- lana blakely : slef improvement,slef love,advices
- Persephonesmind : self development
- jillz guerin : feminine energy, wellness
- alex bondoc : productive routines, beauty
- beauty within' : beauty,self-care, skincare
- urmomsushi : productive vlogs,study routines, skincare,fashion
- precious diary : self-care, productive routines
- reinventing poppy : health, wellness
- your A+ life : mindset, health,self improvement,study motivation
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the 3 type of morning routines :
π¬"Shine bright and prove them wrong 'Cause we can feel our progress" - straykids : blind spot
PRODUCTIVE WORKDAYS
WAKE UP AND DRINK A GLASS OF WATER
QUICK WORKOUT OR BRISK WALK
SHOWER AND GET DRESSED
HEALTHY BREAKFAST WITH COFFEE OR TEA
REVIEW DAILY GOALS AND PLAN TASKS
START WORK ON THE MOST IMPORTANT TASK
CREATIVE DAYS
WAKE UP AND DRINK A GLASS OF WATER
GENTLE STRETCHING OR YOGA
SHOWER AND GET DRESSED
LIGHT BREAKFAST
SPEND TIME JOURNALING OR BRAINSTORMING
START WORKING ON CREATIVE PROJECTS
RELAXING DAYS
WAKE UP AND DRINK A GLASS OF WATER
STAY IN BED FOR LIGHT READING OR MEDITATION
LEISURELY BREAKFAST
SIMPLE MORNING HYGIENE
TAKE A SHORT WALK OUTSIDE
ENJOY A HOBBY OR RELAXATION ACTIVITY
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that girl checklist for success and wellness
"There's no need to go fast fast fast, just take it slow even if time wants to fly by I don't care" -straykids (tortoise and the hare)
1. Create a productive morning routine:
- Start your day with a structured plan that maximizes productivity. This could include activities like exercise, meditation, and planning your day ahead.
2. Keep your space clean and tidy:
- Maintain an organized and clutter-free environment. A clean space can boost mental clarity and reduce stress.
3. Workout at least 3 days a week:
- Engage in physical exercise regularly to stay fit and healthy. Aim for at least three sessions per week.
4. Dress for your body type:
- Choose clothing that flatters your figure and makes you feel confident. Understanding your body shape can help in selecting the right outfits.
5. Work towards becoming financially stable:
- Develop good financial habits, such as budgeting, saving, and investing, to ensure long-term financial security.
6. Practice self-care:
- Take time to care for your mental, emotional, and physical well-being. This can include activities like skincare routines, baths, or hobbies that you enjoy.
7. Keep a daily planner:
- Use a planner to organize your tasks, appointments, and goals. This helps in managing time effectively and staying on top of responsibilities.
8. Consume inspiring content:
- Surround yourself with positive and motivating material, such as books, podcasts, or videos that encourage personal growth and positivity.
9. Prioritize yourself and your mental health:
- Ensure that you are taking steps to maintain your mental health. This can include therapy, relaxation techniques, and setting boundaries.
10. Positive self-talk:
- Practice affirmations and speak to yourself in a positive and encouraging manner. This helps build self-esteem and a positive mindset.
11. Adopt a journal practice:
- Regularly write in a journal to reflect on your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Journaling can be therapeutic and provide clarity.
12. Eat healthy:
- Maintain a balanced diet that includes nutritious foods to support your overall health and well-being.
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