Fake Friends - Tumblr Posts
Think it's time for this duck to start working on setting boundaries and distancing themself from toxic friends. I've had far too many wake up calls, nows the time for action.
Yalnızlık işte sen yokken ne papatyalar yetiştirdim gülüşünden ama sen bahçeme hiç gelmedin.
Really tired of being treated like shit by people I think care about me. I get lead on my people I think are my friends and then the next thing I know I’m dropped and forgotten. I already don’t have anyone. Im alone. I’m stuck in a house where no one really cares. Why does it have to be this way? What did I do to deserve this?
Tell them that you are in pain. And see how fast these people disappear.
Don’t you just love seeing your friends hang out and post on Insta all summer long, and you don’t even get a single text from them
i hate that all my life i'm stuck feeling like everybody things they're better than me in everything. Every friend i ever had in school made fun of me calling me a nerd if i had better grades than them or stupid if i had worse. I'm just so sick of it
When u lost ur best friend of mine years and she won't respond because of depression and now lost ur other best friend because of some fake bitch who spreads rumours about u ugh can't wait to go to college and get away from this I like to watch drama not be apart of it
Pluto in the 12th House 🦂
Having Pluto in the 12th house is like basically minding your business, hanging with your bestfriend that you love dearly… when suddenly you’re hit with an elaborate download of information that’s been brewing in your subconscious of why your friend is a hidden enemy and how they’ve been using you.
Now you can either call them on it immediately and be potentially gaslit or just cut them off..and they call you fake.
Heartbreaking honestly… but it’s for the best.💔
PEOPLE PLEASING WILL BE YOUR GRAVEST MISTAKE
Never worth it
You ever get the feeling that every time you upload a video or a post on your community. Your fans seem to like you and comment your video. But never liked the video after watching it? Cause that's kinda the problem I'm having with my channel rn. Mostly, I never had any fans ever since I started my channel. They say they care about you but just saying that to make you feel better. But not your creativity that you really work hard to make your channel amazing.
How it feels when no one from your small friend circle comes to school
GOSH SHES SO ANNOYING. Why does she always have to be up into my business. Just leave me tf alone.
“My parents always say I should do this and that with my friends, it would be fun... If only they knew. I'm the last person to talk, the one who always listens, not someone most people listen to, the shy one that barely talks. No one gives me a chance. They all have someone else to talk to anyways. So I'm just there trying to get into conversations. But when I do talk... no one hears or cares.”
—authorinred
As someone with ADHD and really bad rejection sensative dismorphia, it was really bad being in a friend group where i was no ones first choice. They would always make plans infront of me without inviting me, even turning me away from one of my good friends. I felt very rejected being in this group of no one who ever wanted to hang out with me. The next year I have a different lunch than all of them and reconnect with the friend they seperated me from. She is now my best friend and randomly calls me asking what im doing that night. Its very validating being invited to the randomest things, like im eating dinner with her family!? Needless to say if you are stuck with that group of friends just know that it gets better and you will get through it
I’m honestly so tired of trying to get along with someone who so obviously hates me. Like, I go out of my way to be nice and to do things for you and try to be an overall nice person and you spit hate right back in my face?? For no fucking reason???
I swear some people in this world were just born into hate
I take back that earlier post about friendship, fuck that shit. You think you finally found people you trust and they end up joining up and stabbing you in the back for no fucking reason. You would think that being in college people would be past this petty ass drama but apparently not
Like lowkey, that shit hurts in another level
How to spot fake people - easy method
Let's say that you are in a group of friends. You wouldn't call them besties, but they're fun to be around. You wouldn't entrust your life to them, but you have nice time hanging out and joking around.
Someone of the group asks about your favourite show and you reply "The vampire diaries" (a dumb example). Then this person says "Uhm..y'know guys, I don't really like vampires. How people can even watch that." Apparently everything's fine, right? What could be wrong with saying your "true" opinion? Well, actually a lot.
There's a really important detail that you have to keep track of, otherwise you might end up with wrong conclusions. The problem here is not the fact that they said something negative related to you or your interests. What actually matters is that they didn't say it straight to your face, but to others while you were being present. So what is happening here?
This person is secretly complotting against you. They want to bring you down because they could see you as a competion, or for whatever other reasons, the point is that they're being fake to you. They have to keep up with the innocent face and at the same time they have to validate themselves: but how? They can't insult you, since that would lead the mask to crumble. So they find another way: by generalizing, talking about "other people" instead of you and by not being straightforward.
If you struggle to identify whether this person is being fake to you or just saying their genuine opinion then trust your intuition.
If something feels off, it's because it is.