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Nobody ever likes to talk about how your family can be more toxic than any stranger. That you can’t always just “ghost or ignore” them.

My family had only supported me when it has given them beneficial gain.

I’m doing whatever I can to get the fuck out of my current life situations. I am DONE with people that use me as a stepping stone for their profits. I have no regrets in time I will never get back as I was a willing participant. Now, I am finished and leaving it behind for better days.

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If you are engaged.

In a relationship.

Or plan on getting married one day.

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Just a Reminder That:

Your Convictions and Boundaries are Not a Burden or an Inconvenience. You have them for a reason. Don’t waste your time on people who make you feel like they are/you are for having them.

People Don’t have to have the Same Convictions as you in order to Respect yours.

If they Aren’t Good for your Spiritual,Physical, or Mental Health Let Them Go.

[Okay.. I read a thing on here and I need to say something about this cause it fucking pisses me off to an insane degree.]

If someone threatens to harm or kill themselves in an attempt to get something from you. Attention, affection.. wtf ever it may be. You need to know this. Whatever they decide to do or not do

IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.

You cannot ever be held responsible for anyone else's terrible life choices!

And it is in no way acceptable behavior on their part to try to put that guilt on anyone. Sincerely. Fuck them!

If someone threatens you with shit like that and you're worried that they might harm themselves or anyone else, contact the authorities and inform them about the situation. Then block the person in question.

You've now done everything you can do. And you need to remove yourself from that person ASAP. This is highly toxic behavior and it will never stop. Do not respond to these threats and do NOT go over to the person in question!

God, shit like this makes me fucking furious.

And if you yourself know that you behave in this way. Fucking stop it immediately! I'm saying this in the most well meaning way possible: You actually need to talk to a mental health proffessional. It's totally unacceptable behavior and you have no idea the level of anxiety and terror you bring upon people with shit like that. Dump that talk on a therapist if needed. They'll deal with it in the way they feel nessasary. No one deserves to be held emotional hostage cause you can't handle your feelings for shit.

End of fucking story.

And I'll say this again:

It is never, ever your fault!

You do not have to carry guilt over other peoples erratic actions. Never allow yourself to do that. Ever.

How Hatred Starts

I just realized why people hate each other.

Once someone sees the worst side of another and continues to judge them by it, they eventually starts hating the latter.

Suppose the person A knows the worst mistake the person B has made in their life and judge their (B) every action based on the knowledge they (A) acquired, they (A) starts to hate them (B). In turn, the person B also tries to find the worst of the person A and starts to hate them as well.

This is how it goes on and none of them ever tries to find the person behind all that mistakes and weaknesses.

hmm how bout a smut request of either tate w/ a mommy kink and being super clingy/needy, or toxic make up s3x with Kai Anderson

How about both?

"Stfu." Kai Anderson x fem!reader 

This is also for the same request as my tate mommy kink requested story. I said id do both so heres the other one “a needy subby tate or toxic sex with Kai”

Taglist: @charsdunkie, @quicksilversg1rl, @yes-divine-ruler, @ppawmpkin

lmk if you want to be added or removed!

Warnings: toxic, Kai Anderson, domestic violence if we’re all being honest with ourselves. Gaslighting, and once again Kai Anderson.

“Would you shut the fuck up?” I look up at him now setting down the little information I had on our new victim. “But-” I felt a hand come across my face leaving a stinging feeling, I had begun to taste blood on the side of my lip. “What is wrong with you Kai?” I stood up and ran to Winters room and sat in the little attic that had an entrance in her closet. She had always let me go in there to hide from Kai, he had never found my hiding place and I was thankful cause the day he would, he’d kill me. I heard her door open and figured I could come down to talk to her, as my feet dangled down from the “door” I heard all movement stop while I still tried to get down with little to no damage. I felt as rough hands yanked me down sending me crashing to the floor, giving me some cuts on my arms and legs. “This is where you fucking hide? No, wait. You are fucking hiding from me?” I felt myself getting even more scared than what I was originally was. “I asked you a question. Are you fucking scared of me?” I couldn’t get the words out my mouth I was terrified of him. I felt him snatch me up by my hair dragging me to his room like that, I felt the rug burn form on thighs as I cried, wailed, and even begged him to stop. “Shut the fuck up.” He threw me into his door before opening it and pushing me in. “Get on the bed.” I felt my whole-body ache in pain caused by him. My own boyfriend, my first love and at this rate he’d be my last love. I still crawled onto the bed whining in pain, tears still streaming down my face. “Shhh baby, I’m not going to hurt you. I love you.” His voice dropped and got softer, more calming. I had suddenly felt safe around him like a lost child to a random person. He leaned down and kissed my tears before pushing me back on the bed roughly earning another whine of pain to spill from my lips. “Baby I hate doing this to you, I really do. It hurts me to see you in pain, it’s just the only way you’ll ever learn to listen to me” I felt bad for making him do this to me, I had hurt him by not listening to me. “I’m sorry divine ruler.” He smiled at me forgivingly pulling off my pants and panties in one go. “I know you are, but I don’t think your body is willing to prove it.” I quickly sit up leaning forward to him pulling at his pants. “It is daddy. It is willing to prove it, I am willing to prove it.” He pushed me back onto the bed and pulled down both his pants and boxers. “Thank you, baby.” I felt as he slid into me overwhelming my senses. “Oh, you are truly a good girl sometimes.” He moved out and then in again a moan falling from both of our lips. He kissed me before moving in and out again finding a slow steady rhythm in between moans and thrust he kept mumbling how good I was for him, and how he hated hurting me. I felt his thrust touch my special spot once again causing my absolute earth breaking orgasm as he came in me. He placed a kiss on my forehead before getting up and getting dressed leaving me there naked. I took the time to take a small nap only to be woken up 45 minutes later to Kai standing in the doorway, “Get dressed we gotta go.”

Did I do toxic gaslighting well enough?

Do you do requests? If so, you should do a Kai imagine where he’s met his equal with reader and she absolutely does not allow him to treat her bad or anything and like basically SHE is the one (only one) to control the fuck out of him instead of the typical vice versa 🫶🏻

I gotchu mamas

Taglist: @kitwalkersgfff, @ppawmpkin, @yes-divine-ruler, @quicksilversg1rl, @charsdunkie lmk if you would like to be added or removed my dears.

warnings: Talks of murder, sex, drugs, violence, dark theme, toxic, Kai Anderson, and smoking. Read at your own doings.

"Equal Power" Kai Anderson x FEM!Reader

"You sick twisted bitch." I shouted at the man who dared threaten me with his knife. "I could fucking kill you right here (name)" I chuckled turning to face him, "I could kill myself right here as well, you're not special dear." He huffed before pushing me into a wall, he opened his mouth to speak but I had already slapped him. "Don't you ever lay your fucking hands on me Kai Anderson." He glared at me pulling his knife out on me as I did the same, Ivy watched worried on whether she should go get Winter. I dropped my knife just in time for his to hit the floor too before dragging him into a kiss that he immediately returned. "Oh god, I fucking hate you Kai." He kissed me harder "Trust me dear I don't like you either." I pushed my knee into his crotch in a way to stimulate him before pushing him off. "You're a fucking whore." I smiled back at him before I walked out the house, "And yet you still can't hit." I slammed the door behind me before getting in my car and driving home. After going in and plopping myself on my bed I took a nap, I woke up to a figure in my doorway; My first instinct was to grab my gun. "Put it down." I heard Kai's voice and pointed the gun at him, "If you don't have Adderall, I'm going to blow your fucking dick off." He held his hands up in defense before tossing me the pill bottle. "Damn, thought I was gonna get to kill you today, Kai." He chuckled before sitting on my bed beside me as I popped three of the pills and set the container on my nightstand. "You look delicious (name)" I smirk at him "I'm fully aware. Now why are you here Anderson?" "Equal Power. I'm willing to share all my power with you under one condition." I toss him glance, taking a puff of my cigarette I had lit and blowing the smoke into his face. "Yeah? And what's that? Want me to suck your dick?" No, well if you want to but no. You will give me my messiah baby my dear."

kai smut where reader tries to dom and ties his hands to the headboard but he gets out and he punishes her?

sure thing angel.

Taglist: @kitwalkersgfff, @ppawmpkin, @yes-divine-ruler, @quicksilversg1rl, @charsdunkie, @eddiemunsonsbitch69, @dahmevan, @sultrysullen dm me to be added or removed dears.

Top| Kai Anderson x Fem!Reader

Warnings: Restraints, Dom and sub relationship, worship, Kai Anderson. lmk if I missed any

I finished tying the sleeping man to the headboard and ran to the bathroom to change into my skimpy lingerie. "Bunny, what the fuck is going on?" I poked my head out to face him barely not coming out yet. "Shh daddy, you're ruining your surprise." He threw his head back before looking at my face. "What's that on your head baby?" I poked my head out again showing off the cute fluffy bunny ears I had on. "Nothing…" He let out a low groan, "C'mon baby, let me out and I won't punish you." I stepped out fully wearing bunny lingerie he had gotten me for a birthday. He got me bunny everything, he said not because I was innocent, we all knew I wasn't, but rather because he found me cute, and I was rather skittish. I knew when the fuck to run, but right now the little bunny tail shook as I did a little spin for him. "You like?" He smirked and pulled on his restraints. "I love it bunny." I walked over to our nightstand. I heard a snap and chuckle before feeling him grip my waist. "You should've let me go when you had the chance baby." I whimpered at his voice. "I thought-" He placed his hand over my mouth. "You suck at tying knots… but this outfit baby." He sucked on his teeth before kissing my neck. "Lay down." I quickly ran to the bed. "Get in position." I sat with my face in the pillow and my ass up. "Fuck baby, but not that one." I frowned and laid on my back watching as he looked at me with a look I had never seen before. He looked at me with a fondness, I got scared and thought he'd kill me but rather got on his knees and pulled my thighs apart, unbuttoning the bottom part of my lingerie. "Divine Ruler?" He looked at me and hummed in acknowledgement. "What are you doing?" He smiled at me, "Rewarding my good, good girl for her loyalty to me." I felt myself blush at his words. My sense of what was going on disappearing as I felt his lips wrap around my clit, I gripped his hair in pleasure whining and grinding against him. "Daddy…" He pushed my hips into the bed planting me flat as to not move. "I know baby." He slid his tongue around my hole before putting it in making me squirm against his grasp. "Can I-" He sent me a look through his eyelashes from in-between my legs, my arousal coating his lips, stubble, and nose. "If you want to baby, it's a reward." I felt my body tremble before a felt something spray out of me, I had squirted all over his face. Shit. "Now, for your little punishment." I looked at him with fear. "I told you untie me." I felt him tie me to the bed, I watched as he pulled his cock out and then rammed it into me. My back arching off the bed as I screamed, wrapping my legs around him as he pounded into me. "If you cum I'll fuck you even after you pass out." I felt my body convulse as he angled just to hit my spot. "Please Divine Ruler" He shook his head no, placing a hand on my mouth still pounding into me before painting my insides and thighs white with his cum. I felt my second orgasm being snatched from me making me whine. "Go to sleep bunny, no more surprises."

Friendly reminder about toxic people:

Toxic people often don't think they're toxic. They might even try and fire back that you're toxic or you're a bad person or you're just like them.

No matter how tempting it may be to argue, don't waste your own effort and mental health trying to convince them otherwise. Drop that person like a hot potato. It's the best, most healthy thing you can do for yourself and them.

You can't make them change their minds kiddo, you can only send them love and healing from the sidelines. They walk their own twisted path with their baggage and you walk yours.

Okay I wanna make something clear right here and now kiddo:

✨You are not responsible for your parents.✨

If they fight, have problems, can't get along, disagree, play mind games, manipulate each other, or are even just passive aggressive or don't communicate well, whatever it is is not your fault. Don't feel like you have to help or fix them, especially not at the cost of your own mental health and well-being. Don't feel like you have to be there for them to vent at or dump their problems on, especially if they're complaints about each other. You are NOT to blame for their complications.

This goes for anybody in your life of course, but dealing with the need to support the people who are meant to be your support system is something I see all too often.

You were NOT brought into this world to be miserable on other people's behalf. You cannot fix people, they have to work on themselves.

Especially if those people are your parents.

I realised I'm toxic af

Like I've been sending the same message to three different people, acting all lovey dovey towards them, but in reality I just wanna be alone...

Sometimes I don't want to be their friends

Why does my dad think he can be more affectionate now that I'm older when he practically made me this way?

Maybe I wouldn't have so many problems with accepting affection If he had figure his shit out when I needed him.

When you want to strenghten Your psych power and intuition but the tarot, friend, guide all of them say “ Girl if you dont break uo definitely , you are stuck sms blocked! So let past go and find a true yourself”

Quando vuoi potenziare i tuoi poteri maggici ma tutti ti dicono prima di chiudere col passato e le relazioni tossiche 😭

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