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ACTUALLY.....ENOUGH SAID 🧐🤔

HOW TO BECOME "HER"

BUILD SELF-CONFIDENCE

Work on building your self-confidence by recognizing your strengths & accomplishment. The moment I’ve decided to show up for my self every day. My self-confident jumped to the roof. 

How do you show up for yourself? Only tip you need…  Do the things you said you were gonna do! 

You said you were going to the gym 3x/week, do it. You said you would start that business, do it. You said you would stop eating out, do it.

SET GOALS

Identify your goals & values.

What is your dream job? Who do you want to become? What do you want to achieve in your life?

SET HEALTHY BOUNDARIES

Learn to set clear boundaries in your personal & professional life.

« No » is a full sentence. Also remind yourself that people that react negatively to your boundaries weren’t meant to stay in your life to begin with.

PRACTICE SELF-CARE

Practice self-care & well-being. Make yourself a first priority.

SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVITY

Surround yourself with supportive and positive influences.

LEARN A HIGH INCOME SKILL

Learn a high income skill to become financially independent, so that you can allow yourself to reach your money goals and have the freedom to make choices that match your values and dreams without needing financial support from others.

READY TO BECOME "HER" ?

I drew black characters several times and none of them sold right away, I had to post them again and again to get them bought, making them cheaper. If I draw a character with pure white skin, no matter how badly designed he is, he will still be bought out in 24 hours. I'm fucking mad.

I also noticed that men are bought more often. white men. That's fucked up.

this girl has been at my auction for several days, not a single bid.

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Vision board for 2023

My vision board for 2024💜✨

Trying to be one with the earth and be more conscious of what’s going on in my mind

black girls can be rich

black girls can be icy

black girls can be “ghetto”

black girls can be “hood rich”

black girls can be prim and proper

black girls can be alternative

black girls can like rock music

black girls can like classical music

black girls can like long nails and 30 inch hair

black girls can wear weave 24/7 all while blasting some rock music

black girls can be who they wanna be and what they wanna be. who is to society to say what we can and cannot do?

as a black girl myself, I say just be you with no regrets whatsoever. never shall you fall to the standard of another just cause of their preference. what they perceive as a “black women” shouldn’t state how we should act as an individual

there isn’t a standard for a “black girl”. we’re just our own person who happen to be black

black girls, women, non-binary, please continue to be yourself. love yourself as you no matter what the world has to say about us. I love you mwah <3

With the great love that I had for you.

Loved you beyond measures,

That I failed to survive on my own,

But with the help of a CPR & a nebuliser,

That made me make it alive again,

And you're fighting for it by coming back,

That's when I swore to hate you with great passion,

You didn't deserve me nor my love back then,

It's when you are realising how sweet my love was,

Forget not that I'm ♈ Aries ruled by Mars,

So you better guess the answer, Ciao Bella!!